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Thursday, June 25, 2009

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 12:52:28 GMT

每一个女孩的身边都有一个不是男朋友的男朋友...

但是，为了什么原因你们没能在一起？
也许他为了朋友之间的义气，不能追你。
也许为了顾及家人的意见，你们没有在一起。
也许为了出国深造，他没有要你等他。

也许你们相遇太早，
还不懂得珍惜对方。

也许你们相遇太晚，
你们身边已经有了另一个人。

也许你回头太迟，
对方已不再等待

也许你们彼此在捉摸对方的心，
而迟迟无法跨出界线。

不过即使你们没在一起，
你们还是保持了朋友的关系。

但是你们心底清楚，
对这个人，你比朋友还多了一份关心。

即使不能跟他名正言顺的牵着手逛街，
你们还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。

他有喜欢的人，你口头上会帮他追，
心里却不是很清楚你是不是真的希望他追到。

他遇到困难时，
你会尽你所能的帮他，
不会计较谁又欠了谁。

男女朋友吃醋了，
你会安抚他们说你和他只是朋友，
但你心中会有那么一丝的不确定。

每个人这辈子，
心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友，
很矛盾的行为。

一开始你不甘心只做朋友的，
但久了，突然发现这样最好。

你宁愿这样关心他，
总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。

你宁愿做他的朋友，
彼此不会吃醋，才可以真的无所不谈。

特别是这样，
你还是知道，
他永远会关心你的。

做不成男女朋友，
当他那个特别的朋友，
有什么不好呢？

你心中的这个特别的朋友...? 是谁呢？

很多的感情，
都因为一厢情愿，
最后连朋友都当不成了

常常觉得惋惜，
可惜一些本来很好的友情

最后却因为对方的一句喜欢你，
如果你没有反应，这一段友情似乎也难以维持下去，
这也难怪有些人会因此不肯踏出这一步。

因为这就像是一场赌注，
表白了之后不是成了男女朋友，
要不就连朋友都当不成了。

有些事不是你能预料的，或许对方不在意，
你们还可以是朋友，但却已经不如从前的好.

希望你们能珍惜身边的人，

可能在这一刻你们不觉得他/她是你生命中最重要的人...

一旦他/她已离你身边而去时，才发觉...

一切都太迟了....

lovin n forgiving

Sat, 22 Nov 2008 06:02:32 GMT

女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方

1 如果你喜欢他就告诉他，即使他拒绝了，也不会丢面子，因为在他心里，会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。

2 如果他喜欢你，要明确告诉他你对他的感情，喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢，千万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决，不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃，因为男孩子的心一旦碎了就很难很难再好起来。

3 男孩子也有自己的脾气，只是因为爱你而压抑着，不要总是任性，有时他们的决定也很有道理.

4 男孩子莫名的向你发脾气，那时因为爱你，把你当成最亲，最贴心，最有安全感的人，千万不要冲他发脾气反击，静静的等着，等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你。

5 他为你准备的东西，即使再难看，再廉价，也要去珍惜，因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。

6 相信他给你多么多么美好的生活，要给他鼓励，因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。

7 不要总是打探他去哪，告诉他注意安全，你会等着他就可以。

8 不要总说~我爱你~，他会半真半笑着说你烦，但不要不说，因为有时候，他们比女孩子更需要这句。

9 他为你掉眼泪了，那么他是真的非常爱你，珍惜他的每一滴泪，不要道歉，不要安慰，握着他的手，默默的为他擦去泪滴。

10 要信任他，他爱你，就什么都不会骗你，即使真的有欺骗，也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。

Monday, November 03, 2008

Mon, 03 Nov 2008 04:19:23 GMT

It's Working For You

Our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us.

(2 Corinthians 4:17)

There are times when everything you attempt to do will seem to go wrong. Regardless of your faith and your consecration, adversity will come. You can't pray away God's seasons. The lord has a purpose for not allowing you to be fruitful all the time. You need seasons of struggle as well as seasons of success. There times destroy pride in our own ability and increase our dependency upon God.

Paul say these light afflictions are only for a moment. Because you can't change it, doesn't mean you can't survive it. If you can't alter it – outlive it! Be like a tree. In winter it silently refurbishes its strength, preparing for the next season of fruitfulness.

If you look back on your accomplishments, you'll notice that they are seasonal. There are seasons of sunshine as well as rain. Each season has its own purpose. Never make permanent decisions based on temporary circumstances. Again Paul says, "The things which are seen are temporary; but the things which are not seen are eternal" (2 Corinthians 4:18). The word temporary means "subject to change." Rejoice; it's not always going to be this way. Just hold steady.

Temporary circumstances don't always require action. I've found that prayer brings patience and patience results in trust. You can't trust a GOD you don't talk to! Paul says light affliction works for us.

In ways that you cannot see or understand, GOD is making the circumstances you're in today work for you

teardrops...

Sat, 23 Aug 2008 22:03:55 GMT

if only he knew my teardrops,
everytime he wasnt there, but tried to care,
i cry silently, pretending to be mature and understanding.

was i asking for too much? or was he jz not giving enuf ..
have i tot of the other way, yes, i wasnt giving enuf, i wasnt loving enuf.

if only my emotions hadnt vanquish my sensitivity, my tears wouldnt be there,
if only i would be more patient, it wudnt hv happen. but it did, for the reason i could not bear..

never give up.. have faith.. trust love.

there wasnt a choice, but i had to stare at those words.. thinking, pondering...

its wasnt a mistake getting together. but a blessing in disguise.
im still waiting for the butterfly.
patiently.
regardless of tears,
its worth every drop, to wait for the only 1 , who will alwz b there/

enuf of cries . its time to be mature my dear/. focusing on whats important.
to secure a future, we do our parts...... to do our best for each other..

Thursday, August 07, 2008

Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:24:15 GMT

Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Life keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only
God keeps You Going

A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone,
even if they don't like you.

Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you
before they go to sleep.

You mean the world to someone.

You are special and unique.

Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

When you make the biggest mistake ever,
something good comes from it.

. When you think the world has turned its back on you
take another look.

Always remember the compliments you received.
Forget about the rude remarks.

TRUE TO YOUR HEART

Sat, 21 Jun 2008 16:03:32 GMT

Baby I knew at once
That you were meant for me
Deep in my soul I know
That I'm your destiny
Though you're unsure
Why fight the tide
Don't think so much
Let your heart decide

Baby I see your future
And it's tied to mine
I look in your eyes
And see you searching for a sign
But you'll never fall
'Til you let go
Don't be so scared
Of what you don't know

True to your heart
You must be true to your heart
That's when the heavens will part
And baby shower you with my love
Open your eyes
Your heart can tell you no lies
And when you're true to your heart
I know it's gonna lead you straight to me
(Got to be true to your heart)

Someone you know is on your side
Can set you free
I can do that for you
If you believe in me
Why second-guess
What feels so right
Just trust your heart
And you'll see the light

True to your heart
You must be true to your heart
That's when the heavens will part
And baby shower you with my love
Open your eyes
Your heart can tell you no lies
And when you're true to your heart
I know it's gonna lead you straight to me
(Got to be true to your heart)

(Ya know it's true)
Your heart knows what's good for you
(Good for you)
Let your heart show you the way
(Ya know it's true)
It'll see you through
(Got to be true to your heart)

Girl my heart is driving me to where you are
You can take both hands off the wheel and
Still get far
Be swept away enjoy the ride
You won't get lost
With your heart to guide you

True to your heart
You must be true to your heart
That's when the heavens will part
And baby shower you with my love
Open your eyes
Your heart can tell you no lies
And when you're true to your heart
I know it's gonna lead you straight to me
(Got to be true to your heart)

When things are getting crazy
And you don't know where to start
Keep on believing baby
Just be true to your heart
When all the world around you
It seems to fall apart
Keep on believing baby
Just be true to your heart

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

Sat, 21 Jun 2008 16:01:22 GMT

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older , their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't believe all you hear , spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
5. In disagreements , fight fairly. No name calling.
6. Don't judge people by their relatives.
7. Talk slowly but think quickly.
8. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
9. Say 'God bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
10. When you lose , don't lose the lesson .
11. Remember to Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
12. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
13. When you realize you've made a mistake , take immediate steps to correct it.
14. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

BATU CAVES

Sat, 21 Jun 2008 06:24:56 GMT

roti tisu taste so so good..!!

light frm the cave .. its HOPE ..!!

i climb a million steps to the cave u kno!!

this is my fren...!! carlos....~~ dhass dun hv michaels' picture. :( haiz..

i don't think we have timothy and penelopy's picture ether.. :( haiz.. the pigeons wudnt poze for me ..!!

love memories

Thu, 19 Jun 2008 19:10:46 GMT

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present... every day with him is already a blessing !!

He alwz finds a way to surprise me..
with his effort and actions, he captured my heart deeply..
the lovely cards he writes for me with his baby hand writting...
the keychain, mr mowby, d unique pendant n necklace, dinners, cell phone...
each gift, each wishes and texts .. meant so much..
bcz of the time he spent queitly thinking, about us, about me .

.. chatting with each other made us true to our hearts ..
sincerity, loyalty, honestly and trust..
we ponder about realistic questions.
could the worlds' temptation and fringe benefits pull us apart ?
or are our hearts stronger than all the obstacles.?

6 months have passed..
our feelings grew more real each day. . .
being ever so protective about this love ..and patient..
distance makes the heart grow stronger..
each second of us being together was by the grace of God,
Him being our only key, our only faith..
everything which had pass happened for a reason.
every challenge which never killed our feelings only made us stronger.
but with faith, we are still one,
never to give up, never to lose hope,
submitting , cherrishing, supporting, and understanding..
we were each others' world...

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Wed, 18 Jun 2008 05:37:25 GMT

Ode to My Grandfather

Long will I miss your voice calling me to breakfast,
The moments in your favourite pau shop will I always treasure,
Your hushed prayer before each reunion dinner,
Your pearls of wisdom to all who cared to lend an ear,
These I carry in my heart.
My eyes are heavy with sorrow,
Yet my soul rejoices, for today, you are in paradise.
Memories may fade, but your legacy remains.
You led a simple life, shorn of luxury.
Though the winds of strife, poverty, and hardship huffed and puffed on the door of your fortitude,
Your house never came down.
You weathered the storms of life's darkest days,
You negotiated the pitfalls and avoided temptation at a time when a lesser man would have fallen.
All this, you did, with masterful aplomb.
Your grit, perseverance and self sacrifice meant that you'd always bear the pain of a battered stomach.
But this suffering was your cross to carry, so that none of us would have to suffer the hunger that you felt for most days of your life.
Education was the bedrock on which your family was built.
A vision misplaced, ahead of its time.
Prudence and thrift were your life's pillars.
Never one to back down from life's tempest, you negotiated each swell with hard work and an iron will.
Although your mind gave way before your body,
Before your memories grew dim and the rug of life was pulled from beneath your feet,
Before the curtains were drawn for one final hurrah,
You prayed,..
"God, please take care of my family".

Written in loving memory of Lim Tang Too,my grandfather.
Born on April 9th 1921 and passed away on May 8th 2008